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Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Family



Well as everyone knows...FAMILY is always important to us and they are not going to be replaceable deep inside our heart and they are not going to be remove away.



What is Family??


F - Father
A - And
M - Mother
I - I
L - Love
Y - You


*personally agree with this*
Why??


Because a PERFECT family need to started with a pair of loving parents which is our Father & Mother.
Without them in our life,which means no us in this world.
No matter how bad they are or how you hate them with some specific matters or problems happened before.This is the only facts that we can't change it.
Our blood is the combinations of them and they build us up!


Now let's talk about the FAMILY LOVE!!
There's a differences between their love!!
SERIOUS!! hahaha..


Father's Love :


- Well ... Father can be consider as a king or a sole breadwinner in the family.
They actually stressing themselves in earning more money to support the family and always try hard to give their family the best! They are a man so that sometimes they gonna be acting cool like they didnt care much bout you or what but actually deep insides they really care. They care much more than you expected like he knows the numbers of hairs on our head. 

Mother's Love : 

- And mother's love is much more different that father's love because they already given us the best thing which is bring us to this beautiful earth by suffering for 10 months. This is the biggest love from a mother. No one can replace this love no matter how important the people are to you. 
Mothers make sure that their children are safe and happy throughout their childhood. It is the unconditional love that a mother feels that drives these feelings. It is hard to describe the feeling that a mother has towards her children. In fact, most people do not understand unless they become a mother themselves. Raising children comes with its own share of frustrations, from the needy new born baby that requires regular care to the sullen teenager, a mother's job is anything but easy. A famous saying states that "God could not be everywhere and so he invented mothers", these words are a great inspiration to mothers across the world. When all is well, a mother puts her children before anything else, including their own comfort and happiness. 


Mothers give an awful lot of support to their children, whether it involves very visible support or simple background encouragement. Not only do mothers support their children, but they also often hold the whole family structure together. This role is not always plain sailing. A mother can also be upset or hurt. Remember that a mother often takes the fallout for the toddler tantrums and the teenage angst. Despite this, mothers, generally, will love their children no matter what they do.
Mothers are meant to be the cheerleaders of their kids, sometimes in loud and visible ways, sometimes in sublet or unspoken ways in the background. Mothers are often the backbone of families. Mothers job is not always an easy one. Mothers have to make sacrifices. Mothers can have their hearts broken. Mothers must be the conscience of young children and are often the brunt of their anger and pain as they grow into adulthood. The great thing about mothers is that they usually understand and love their kids anyways.
Every year there is a day set aside to celebrate the role of a mother. Unsurprisingly, the day is called Mother's Day. This day is a great opportunity for children of all ages to show their appreciation for the work of a mother. Gifts and cards, often handmade with care, are given as a sign of love.
Every year there is one special day put aside for mothers. What else could it be called but "Mothers Day."? This is the day that sons and daughters who are grown make the long distance calls or take their moms out for dinner. Mother's Day is a special day when mom gets the flowers she deserves. Mother's Day is a day when children stop and say thank you to mom for all she has done over the years. Young children make mothers homemade cards that bring tears to mother's eyes and make her realize that it is all worth it.
Describing a mother's love is virtually impossible. It is a feeling that can only truly be understood by those that experience it. In time, a mother's daughters will grow up to be mothers themselves.
Never underestimate the influence that a mother has over a child. It may not always appear this way, but children look to their mother for guidance on how they should deal with situations. On the rare occasions that a mother is unable to look after their children, maybe through illness or death, it can have a tragic impact on the life of the children.
Mothers have incredible power over their children that they must be respect. It is a tragedy for a child when the mother is not someone who looks after the child properly. It is a tragedy when a child or children lose their mother's at a young age.




Urmm...although Im grew up in a single mother family but yet I didnt hate my father before.. Im still care him and keep contacted with him. The time we spend together is really few but I will appreciate each time we are together. I guess I only can see him a few years once. Can you imagine that? But Im still a happy kids as I still got a world best mother in my family!! She is the wonderful mother I ever met! She is the sole breadwinner in our family and she's the toughest mother I ever seen too so she's actually my role model!!She sacrifices too much just to grow us up! So this actually change my minds of how important a family is. 

So please do take care and spend more time with you family. Appreciate them more as they are still being around with you..Not to regret when someday they are about to leaving you!.. 

Trust me FAMILY will never fades away... no matter how a failure you are..they will always be there to motivate you,love you,care for you and look up on you.. BECAUSE there are no comparison between family. 

Thank GOD I got the greatest family members!! ESPECIALLY my grandma,mum & bro!! Both of them will be the most important people in my life and they will never be replaceable!! NEVER!!